I was 100% sure this was going to be Hans
I AM DYING
A) tumblr is one of the most toxic environments I’ve been in since becoming a part of the gaming community as a female.
B) I’m just following the wrong people.
- Go the Distance
- Hercules, 1997
When I was a freshman, my sister was in eighth grade. There was a boy in two of her periods who would ask her out every single day. (Third and seventh period, if I remember correctly.) All day during third and seventh she would repeatedly tell him no. She didn’t beat around the bush, she didn’t lie and say she was taken—she just said no.
One day, in third period, after being rejected several times, he said; “I have a gun in my locker. If you don’t say yes, I am going to shoot you in seventh.”
A friend of mine rejected a guy’s proposal so he beat her unconscious and kept her in his apartment for two days. He threatened her parents that he would kill her and when his parents and authorities got a hold of him, guess what happened to him? Nothing.
A guy yelled at me from a bar balcony to get my attention and when I ignored him, he threw his beer can at me.
A guy at McDonald’s couldn’t pick up on any fucking social cues that I was uncomfortable and intimidated by him. He took my phone, called his number with it so that he had my number. He tried to video chat me several times until I cursed him out and then he stopped.
Another friend of mine refused to have sex with her boyfriend (she was 14. he was 18) so he beat her up. She moved to another country because of him.
Rodger’s case is just some of the very few that are actually reported. It’s sensationalized to the point that people forget that these are daily occurrences. There are thousands of women telling their stories but nobody’s listening, even now.
Six people are dead and the only thing you can say is “not all men are like that.” Get the hell out of my inbox.
im gonna puke
I counted 9 various “go away”s, but he wouldn’t flipping STOP.
what really makes me angry is the fact that a lot of people reading this are probaby finding nothing wrong with it, beside the fact that “that girl is being such a bitch!”
my heart says yes but my bank balance says no